Everything I Needed to Learn About Life, I Learned From My Dog

It was supposed to be a simple adoption – a dog to keep me company on long walks. 

Instead, it turned into a 1,200-mile lesson in love, loss, laughter, and letting go… all taught by a four-legged co-pilot named Sir Lancelot.

I had no idea I was bringing home a mirror: one that would reflect my fears, my inconsistencies, and my capacity for unconditional love.

I thought I was rescuing him. In reality, he rescued me.

If you keep reading, you’ll discover how one road trip with my dog across Europe during the pandemic taught me six powerful truths and life lessons.

Lesson 1: The Love You Give Finds Its Way Back to You

When I adopted Sir Lancelot, I thought I was doing something good – rescuing a young dog who needed a home. What I didn’t realize was that he had been sent to rescue me.

Oberon, the family dog I loved since I was young, was living with my family in Prague. He had been my quiet anchor for years, my old-soul companion. 

By the time Lancelot came into my life, Oberon’s body was failing him. I knew our days together were numbered, but I didn’t know how I’d face the moment when they would run out.

When the call came – the one telling me to come to Prague – I packed the car and set off from Liverpool.

Lancelot, still a gangly seven-month-old, climbed into the backseat without hesitation. His presence didn’t erase the ache, but it kept me steady.

I remember arriving and seeing Oberon for the last time: his eyes still warm, his tail faintly wagging, as if to say, It’s okay. You can let me go now. That night, I held him until he fell asleep for the last time.

Lancelot stayed by my side, his head resting on my knee. At that moment, I understood something simple but profound: when you open your heart to care for another, the world has a way of sending that care back to you – sometimes in the form of a new friend who shows up just when you need them most.

Lesson 2: The Strangers Who Change Your Story

Grief has a way of making the world feel small and heavy. But sometimes, a single stranger can lift it – even if just for a moment.

On the ferry from Harwich to Belgium, I was told Lancelot was too big to stay in my cabin. My heart sank. 

It had been a long day of driving, and the thought of him sleeping alone made my chest tighten. Then came Miguel – a ferry worker with a kind smile who found us a bigger cabin, free of charge.

That night, Lancelot made his grand entrance by pooping in the middle of reception. I wanted the floor to swallow me whole – but Miguel laughed until tears streamed down his face. And in that laughter, I felt something I hadn’t in weeks: lightness.

Grief doesn’t disappear overnight, but kindness – even from a stranger – can pierce the dark just enough to remind you the world is still good.

Lesson 3: Humor Is the Best Border Pass

Border crossings used to make me anxious. Two passports meant extra questions, extra scrutiny, and extra tension. But this trip was different.

At one crossing, the officer peered into my backseat and asked, “Who’s the shy blonde lady hiding back there?”

I rolled down the window. My oversized puppy’s face filled the frame.

The officer burst out laughing. The tension broke instantly. And I realized something: humor isn’t just a way to survive awkward moments – it’s a bridge. 

It reminds people, even in serious roles, that we’re all human, all capable of joy, and all craving connection.

Lesson 4: Romance Isn’t Always About Lovers

That evening on the ferry, Frank Sinatra played softly in the background. Candlelight flickered on the table. And across from me sat my dog – head tilted, eyes full of quiet understanding.

We shared dinner in a near-empty restaurant in the middle of the North Sea. It wasn’t extravagant, but it was perfect. 

I felt the kind of contentment that romance novels promise – only mine came not from a lover, but from a moment of pure presence with someone who had my whole heart.

Romance, I learned, isn’t always about another person. Sometimes it’s about the peace that comes when you realize you’re exactly where you’re supposed to be.

Lesson 5: Expect the Unexpected (and Laugh Through It)

Traveling with a young dog is a masterclass in surrender. One moment you’re admiring castle views, the next you’re apologizing to a receptionist because your dog has just leapt onto the front desk to greet them.

I used to hate travel mishaps. Delays, mistakes, misunderstandings – they all felt like failures. But with Lancelot, they became stories. Each unexpected moment pulled me out of my head and into the present.

Life will always throw you curveballs. The trick is deciding whether to see them as disasters… or as the punchlines you’ll tell later.

Lesson 6: Home Is a Feeling, Not a Place

Driving the castle route through Germany – the land of Lancelot’s ancestors – I watched him stare out the window like he was remembering something older than both of us. 

Hovawarts once guarded these medieval fortresses. Here, he looked like he belonged.

And maybe I did too. Because home isn’t always the place you’re from. Sometimes it’s the place where you feel seen, safe, and whole.

The Best Journeys Are Shared

We didn’t rush. We didn’t chase tourist checklists. We simply drove – from Liverpool to Prague, through grief, through change, through the spaces between loss and joy.

I’ve been to over 40 countries, but this trip will always be the one I remember most clearly. Not because of where we went, but because of who was beside me.

Sir Lancelot didn’t just come along for the ride. He carried me through it – and showed me that even in the hardest seasons, the right companion can make the road feel a little less lonely, and the destination feel a lot more like home.

Not everyone has a Lancelot. Sometimes, when the road gets heavy, we have to look for a different kind of companion – one that helps us keep going when the grief is sharp, the days feel empty, or the changes come too fast.

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